Peel the Onion

Sometimes we assume that the surface of things is the most important part.  How does it look?  How does it feel to touch?  What is he/she saying?...

Truth is the surface is just the beginning.  I mean, would you get into a relationship based solely on the other person's appearance?  I'd like to think not. 

The same applies with most anger and frustration.  Yes, some people are direct with what is bothering them; while others may not even realize that the argument they have picked is based on a completely different source.

The reason I mention this is to say, don't take everything that is said to you to heart.  Sometimes we have the tendency of misdirecting our feelings just because it's the easy way out.  Instead, we need to Peel the Onion... Take a moment to determine where the real issue lies within ourselves.  If you are in fact addressing the core issue, still ”Guard your Words”. 

If your moment of reflection shows that you are but making the person that you are addressing, a scapegoat of your pent up frustration... Then simply walk away.  There is no shame in inwardly acknowledging that you are mistaken.

The bottom line is this... Reflection is key.  Determine where you are and what you truly feel before you take action.  Yes, you may be still and be silent for a while; but this is much better than acting and having regrets.

*Peace and Blessings*